Ohhh, I want to get married to a pastor; yea, marrying a new generation pastor, so I would be called mama and reverenced by everyone of my church member just as vast in campus fellowships. Woow, this is a nice idea definitely. The question is can you bear the cross?
Ohh no, I don’t mean the cross of Calvary or salvation-related cross; rather, can you bear the burden of marrying to a new generation pastor? Anyway, you might. Ofcourse, as our faces are difference, so are our capabilities are. However, let us consider different factors or the burdens of marrying a new generation pastor before furthering
Some see themselves as God
Marrying a man who assume himself as God is very burdensome. To a man that claims Godhead, helping his wife in home chores is a sin against divinity and a sour to on-looking humanity. I know of a pastor(not a new generation pastor though), the wife would cook, mop the house, watch car and even fetch water_ I was not told, am a witness. It is not anyone’s business right? I deemed it fit to let our ladies know, so that you wont marry a pastor and start making issues out of it; just get lady to be a workaholic.
Availability of other ladies
A pastor is a father to all. So, bear in mind that church members would come for counseling, both male and female. Beautiful and endowed ladies would come for counselling .This is an important factor to consider especially if you as a lady is a jealous lover and have the spirit of jealousy except you see yourself as a divorcee in years to come
I have discovered by studies, social media and friendly relationship with some ladies that most ladies like full time attention. A new generation pastor most probably, would not have time for that. From quiet time with the LORD to church service, to visitation to meeting and so on. There a still some new generation pastors who flex their wives but are few; someone like Apostle Johnson Suleman hangs out with his wife atimes
Also know that you as a pastor’s wife would be available in virtually all the programs hosted in church and punctuality to all the church events is almost a law.
Now, that we have considered all these factors, do you have the ability to cope as pastor’s wife without complaining?
In conclusion, nothing on earth is absolute. There exist some new generation pastors you would marry and feel heaven here on earth.